April 20, 2008
For a long time I’ve been researching cloth diapers and wanting to give them a try. I don’t have any particular reason for using cloth diapers other than wanting to see if I’m capable. Sure, they’re environmentally sound and - in the long run - they save a bit of money, but really, I’ve just been wondering if I’m tough enough to tackle the world of cloth. I wasn’t planning on trying them with Nicky, but I promised myself that I’d try them on my next baby.
Two weeks ago we ran out of diapers, and I found myself desperately not wanting to go to the store. I wished that I had a stash of cloth diapers for times like that. Then I started thinking about what I would do about diapers in an emergency. If we are ever in a financial bind, it would be smart to have a few cloth diapers in the house. And what if - heaven forbid - we ever need to evacuate our home in a natural disaster or the like? Scotty and I have backpacks packed and ready to go in case we ever need to flee our home in a hurry. We have enough supplies and provisions in our backpacks to last at least a week away from home, but guess what! There are no diapers in those backpacks. A week’s worth of diapers would take up valuable space. As I contemplated the necessity of diapers in my current situation, I decided that cloth diapers would be a good thing to have on hand whether I use them regularly or not.
I’ve looked into various forms of cloth diapers since becoming a mother, and I’m overwhelmed by the variety. My biggest concern about switching to cloth was the upfront expense. That’s why I wanted to wait until my next baby to use them because that way, I’d have nine months to build up a decent stash of them. On that day, two weeks ago, as I dragged my butt to the store to buy another box of 92 disposable diapers, I decided it was time. I typically spend $20 on a box of diapers, so I made a drastic decision. I was going to buy cloth diapers, and I was going to do it the most pathetic, old-school, cheapest way possible.
And I did.
I left the disposables on the shelf. I bought a twelve pack of pre-folds for $12, a pack of four pins for a dollar, and a set of six vinyl pants for $7. I decided that if I can handle cloth diapering in this, the worst possible way, I’ll reward myself by investing in some fancy cloth diapers later down the road.
When I got home from the store, I pinned my kid’s diaper in place, pulled on some vinyl pants, and voila! Things were great.
I’ve been using cloth about 80% of the time for the past two weeks. I bought two Snappis on-line so I could ditch the hazardous pins, but other than that, I’ve been using the most miserable cloth diapering method known to man.
It’s really not bad, but I do have some concerns:
- The diapers I have are kind of thin - in the future, I’ll buy thicker ones on-line. Leaks have been abundant. I have to change Nick the instant he “goes” or things get ugly.
- The vinyl pants smell all plasticy and gross, so when mixed with pee or poo smell, I want to vomit.
- Nicky’s first two poops in his cloth diapers were diarrhea (TMI, I know, but you need to know what I’m dealing with here!!)
- Nicky HATES the vinyl pants. He’s fine once they’re pulled up, but the process of putting them on is agony.
- I worry that Nicky is uncomfortable in the cloth diapers. The wetness, the sagging, the extra fold of cloth around his legs… I can’t imagine that he’s delighted to be put through this, and he seems to be grabbing himself a lot more that usual.
Now please take note that I know there are better ways of doing this. I know there are far better options for cloth diapering, and I know that all of these things can be corrected, so you don’t need to try and educate me on the matter. I feel that I’ve done an adequate amount of research on the subject. I just didn’t want to invest a lot of money in something that I might not want to commit to, so I wanted to do it this way first so that upgrading would be all the more fulfilling. I’m just satisfied knowing that it’s possible to do it this way and that I can handle it.
Other than the aforementioned concerns, I was feeling really good about things after the first few days. I’d been using cloth diapers most of the time, and I was keeping up on the washing. I felt confident enough about my commitment that I decided to buy one nice diaper to try. I’d already done most of the necessary research, and I wanted to try a bumGenius diaper. I chose this brand of diapers because they have great reviews, they are one-size, and they are the least expensive of their kind (approx. $17.95 each, other one-size pocket diapers run around $30 each!!!) I bought a single, blue bumGenius diaper which arrived in my mailbox promptly.
After a week of vinyl pants, I was ready to make out with the bumGenius diaper. I let it sit on my counter for a day where I would walk past it and smile at it. I played with the velcro. I played with the inserts. I adjusted the snaps. I loved my bumGenius diaper! I had to plan the right time to use it because I only had one. I felt like it needed to be a special occasion. I chose to put Nicky in it for church last Sunday.
It was beautiful.
I’m now planning to purchase several bumGenius diapers… slowly but surely. A full conversion probably won’t take place until my next baby, but over time, I’ll be able to get a decent stash of higher quality cloth diapers. I may also try a few other kinds just for fun, but bumGenius seems to suit my needs the best at this time.
So that’s it, friends. We’re cloth diapering now, or at least I’m cloth diapering. Scotty won’t touch them with a ten-foot pole, but I’m sure a small amount of persuasion can fix that.
April 21, 2008 at 8:20 am
box of 92 disposable diapers for $20???
omgoooosh how cheap can things get in the USA? the best deal here is 56 diapers for $35…and that’s THE best deal.
anyway, u girl are pretty brave doing the whole old style cloth nappy thing.
good on u!
April 21, 2008 at 8:37 am
That’s awesome Britt!!! Don’t worry Scotty will adjust, he’ll have to for GNO, or he’ll probably call his or your mom to come over or he’ll take Nick to them to change him. But the day will come. I’m happy for you.
April 21, 2008 at 10:54 am
You are so brave! I commend you!
I’ve also heard that cloth diapers may help with potty training, because kids don’t really like how the wet diapers feel, so they have bigger incentive!
April 21, 2008 at 12:53 pm
what a great post. I love that you’re doing this and I love that you’re all about the cheapest route. As you know, I’m also about that route.
(Why is it that I can’t accept that cloth diapers are NOT the same as they were when my younger siblings were using them? I can’t get those images out of my mind!)
(Oh, they are doing a gdiaper giveaway at Seattlemomblogs.com this week. ENTER!)
April 21, 2008 at 1:04 pm
Okay, I had no idea that cloth diapers could be two things.
A) So adorable! Those bumgenie ones are so dang cute, I could just picture Gretta’s little bum in it, and that makes me smile.
B) So expensive! Why? Why? Why? I wouldn’t spend $30 on a DRESS, let alone a diaper.
But, I guess it’s like you said, we don’t have a stockpile of diapers for “just in case”, and having a couple of these might just be worth it for the peace of mind.
Good for you, I’m seriously debating if I should try this with G.
April 21, 2008 at 2:35 pm
WOW!!! I too can’t get the image of cloth diapers out of my head when my Mom used them on my younger brothers. It was so grose. I will soon potty train my youngest so I feel like it’s too late for me but I give you props for doing it!
April 21, 2008 at 2:38 pm
You’re inspiring me, here!
Thanks to winning the giveaway at Isabel’s blog (thanks, Isabel!), I have a starter package of gDiapers to try. I just found out that Evie is 8lbs at last at her apt today so I’m going to try them out! I’ve been researching using them with cloth inserts too and I like what I’ve seen. If you had asked me when I had my first if I would consider doing cloth, I would have told you you were crazy! How time changes!
April 21, 2008 at 2:57 pm
I am childless at this moment, but know from my sister how much things like formula and diapers cost in the time that a baby is using them. So this bumgenie thing, you have one and are supplimenting with the regular first ones you bought? How many do you need to not be doing laundry all the time?
Seriously, diarrhea? Oh, you are a good woman.
April 21, 2008 at 4:06 pm
You are awesome! Going the grocery store route is a great way to see if you can stand the test LOL. Were those working for nighttime?? I’ve never done it but I hear you can take out the polyester batting in those flimsy prefolds and replace it with anything more absorbant. We can’t use bGs because of the suedecloth inner but I hear that if they work for you, you love them. Have fun!
April 21, 2008 at 5:18 pm
Great work! Lots of people think they can’t afford it up front because they don’t want to use prefolds. Good to see somebody proving them wrong! Many mom’s I know really start to like the prefolds even after trying the fancy other options, especially when they find a cover they like.
http://www.valleyclothdiapers.ca
April 21, 2008 at 11:05 pm
We recently started cloth diapering as well. I borrowed 6 premium prefolds from my friend, bought two PUL wraps (the Bummis whisper wraps, and I don’t think they’re fantastic - they’re pretty bulky and just don’t fit very good. My baby has an extremely slim tushy for her 20 lbs and the wraps seem to add more bulk than necessary), and 6 fleece liners for the stay-dry-dump-poop-in-the-toilet-ness. I like the liners, and the prefolds aren’t that bad (I like the bikini twist fold myself). I started putting on the snappi then the wrap, but now I mostly just skip the snappi, because Kitten is far too wriggly for that.
I also went and got 2 Dry-Line fitted diapers and 1 Mother-Eze Sandy’s fitted diaper as well. I like the Sandy’s, and am pretty ambivalent about the Dry-Lines. They’re both really trim until I get that dang cover on.
Anyway, Hubby bought a new video game, so I get to spend $40 on what I want… I think I’m going to get one Bumgenius and one Fuzzi Bunz. I have friends who swear by each, so I thought I’d give them both a try.
I’m glad to hear that yet another person loves the bumgenius!
April 22, 2008 at 12:01 am
I am surrounded by online cloth diaper friends. I helped raise my nieces and nephews from the time I was FIVE and they ALL had the “Old fashioned” cloth diapers (NEVER AGAIN. NEVER, EVER)
But.
I may do the velcro ones if I have another kid. NOT committing (To the diapers or the kid) but still…they aren’t half bad…
April 22, 2008 at 8:56 am
Welcome! I’m glad I finally have a friend here in the cloth world (even if it is only part time!). And seeing the responses from your e-friends with cloth makes me feel a little less lonely!
April 24, 2008 at 11:21 am
You are inspiring me to revisit this issue. Luke and I are going to buy a house this summer, and when we do, I’m hoping it has a separate laundry room where I can store dirty diapers. If they do, I’ll give it a try. (Right now our washer and dryer is in our bathroom, and there’s no good storage place for diapers that are waiting to be washed.)
Hooray for saving money!
May 24, 2008 at 8:17 pm
I have a step sister who was born when I was 11, and a step brother who was born when I was 13, and both wore old fashioned cloth diapers with pins and rubber pants. Both me and my older sister helped out with baby care, and between the two of us we changed heaps of diapers! It might not be fashionable, but it’s economical!